Friend

~Shared by Jim Whitesell~

I met Chip while I coached at St Johns University.  I really enjoyed coaching his son Max. An incredibly dedicated and wonderful young man. When Max decided to transfer from St Johns, Chip and I had several discussions . I was hoping Max would stay. Chip had great concern for his son’s decision, wanting him to be very happy and enjoy his college and basketball experience.

During this time I knew Chip was fighting cancer, I didn’t know how severe it was but he looked remarkably well. Two months after Max transferred, my little brother Sean  was diagnosed with brain cancer. Our whole family was devastated. I contacted Chip for advice. I knew he looked at experimental treatment and would be helpful getting information. His insight, his compassion were amazing!  We had many conversations, it was so helpful and positive. I remember Chip immediately sent me information on how to beat the odds and how it helped him in  his fight against cancer.  Out of the blue, I would get a phone call or a text message from him just checking in , seeing if he can help me out. Wondering how Sean was doing. I was incredibly grateful, I cited his messages over and over to my brother and my family. He reached out  it was so helpful to myself and my family. I am so  thankful for his generosity and his human kindness. Chip really did not know me well . He knew me as one of his Son’s coaches.  That was it , but he gave me an amazing gift the last two years.  He gave me insight , education and most importantly hope!  Sean Passed away this December. I miss him greatly just as you folks miss Chip.

 Every day I give thanks to having him as my brother ,  and I thank my short time knowing Chip and the gifts he shared!!

My deepest sympathy.

Sincerely,

Jim Whitesell